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Facon and the Five Mini Wheats

At 5:40 a.m. The Sophomore staggers into the kitchen.

I put down my coffee. She offers a grunt and a one-armed hug. She picks up her bowl containing cut-up strawberries and stares suspiciously. In the four days they’ve sat in the refrigerator, they’ve slid from deliciously firm red to slightly soft scarlet.

“The strawberries are fine.” The momster doesn’t even look up from shoving the 18 tiny plastic containers into three lunch bags.

Shuddering, The Sophomore smothers the berries with vanilla yogurt. Then pours her Frosted Mini Wheats. 

I clear my throat.


“Every morning, when I load the dishwasher, do you know what’s in your bowl?”

She feigns deafness.

“Exactly five Mini Wheats.”

“You tell me this every morning.”

“Assuming there are 400 Mini Wheats in each box, do you know how many boxes of Mini Wheats you condemn to the garbage disposal every year?”

She starts chewing like an anesthetized goat.

I try to complete the calculation.

But I’ve not finished my first mug of coffee and I’ve just painted myself into a corner with a Common Core Math Problem for Gifted College Students – one made impossible because some fool tucked 365 days into a year. 

“A lot,” I say. “A lot of boxes.”

A grunt.

“After pouring your cereal, why not just put five Mini Wheats back every morning?”

Our 15 minutes of ritual silence follow. Then I twist the newspaper around to face her and extend a finger.

Tap. Tap. Tap.


Tappity-tap tap.

OK. She’s right. Nine times out of ten I’m tapping a story about a teen, texting while driving, flying off the road up in Brooksville, exploding through a farmer’s chicken coup and smashing into an electrified cattle fence so that the teen’s three BFFs, now compacted into the dashboard cupholder, sizzle brightly before expiring.


But my tapping kills no foolish teens this morning. It’s entirely uplifting. I’m tapping a story about the Alabama governor’s son, who talked his dad into vetoing a bill many considered discriminatory toward gay Americans. As someone with a close gay friend and two gay cousins, The Sophomore will LOVE this story: Younger Generation Sets Older One Straight on Gays.

“But!” I protest.

“It’s not a good time,” she huffs.

The momster throws me a warning look.

“Fine,” I say. “Just know that you’re missing out on the most fascinating, important story of your sullen teen years.”


Round Two has begun.

Her sister’s Doctor Who phone alarm is popping off – a recording of a creepy, alien-possessed toddler in gas mask, freakily asking strangers in an English accent, “Are you my mummy?”

Right before killing them.

“ARE YOU MY MOMMY?” it repeats.

“What’s wrong with her?” The Sophomore jumps up to get to the bathroom first. “What kind of normal person has an alarm like that?”

Elf, our sixth grader, staggers in. I mentally count backwards from five. Elf predictably dry heaves at one. She picks her sister’s empty yogurt cup in two fingers. Holding her nose, she dramatically hauls it to the sink. “Why does she leave such a huge mess for me every morning?”

Elf grumbles through the Official Morning Hug of Tranquility and Happiness, which, she announces, is far too long and not particularly effective.

And then she pours a bowl of the same cereal she has eaten every day for the last three years: Quaker Oatmeal Squares. Cinnamon flavor.

(Go ahead. Mess up and buy the Brown Sugar flavor by accident. She’ll just gag and you’ll throw out the entire opened but uneaten box.


Elf requests the newspaper comics, which she proceeds to shred and fold to her liking.

Another door blows open.

Ladies and gentlemen! Round Three!

Bee, our fourth grader, emerges and hugs the dogs. After throwing all the doors of the refrigerator completely open, she places three slices of turkey bacon on a plate – the grossest, fakest looking slabs of beast ever conjured by man – and pops them in the microwave. They begin popping and spattering loudly.

“Did you cover the plate?” I ask Bee for the 45th day in a row.

“Oh!” Bee proclaims for the 45th day in a row. She rushes over, pops the microwave door and covers the facon.

Elf gags at the smell. “Can’t she just wait until I leave to make that?”

“It’s just bacon!” Bee protests.

“It’s just gross!” Elf retorts.

Bee sits. Then she tucks one end of a particularly limp piece of facon in her mouth and stares diabolically at Elf. Then Bee starts jiving her head so the limp bacon rotates like a helicopter rotor in front of her face.

Elf’s face displays nauseated outrage.

Or outraged nausea.

I pull the facon from Bee’s craw and plop the entire plate on the other side of the table. “You can have your bacon back when you behave in a civilized manner.”

Elf departs to properly address the Sophomore’s bathroom hogging.

Bee draws her knees up into her T-shirt, stretching it out like a balloon near bursting. She sits, her feet flat on the chair, toes curling over the seat lip. She looks like a fat, disgruntled hobbit pouring her Special K with Freeze-dried Strawberries.

Which she eats dry.

With her fingers.

Sitting at least two feet from the table.

So that half the cereal never quite completes the interstellar journey to Bee’s face.

Which is why the two dogs are perched immediately below her, staring up in rapt attention, like nerd children in math class.

“Could you please sit right and use a spoon?”

Meanwhile the Morning’s Official Bathroom Drama sputters to life.

“Let me in!” Elf rattles the bathroom doorknob. “I know you’re just brushing your hair in there!”

“Not true!” The toilet flushes. “Hear that? It’s a toilet flushing!”

“Everyone knows you’re just brushing your hair!”

Because two girls who are 13 and 16 can’t actually share a bathroom mirror six feet wide.

More banging. “Mom and dad! She won’t let me in!”

I pretend to be so engrossed in the newspaper that I don’t hear. The momster does the same, but we both know how this is going to end.

Bee takes advantage of our fake distraction to seize her fake bacon. She quickly stuffs it in her mouth and leaves for her room, the dogs trailing behind, licking her hand.

More banging. 

“Ugh!” My wife stands.

Sweet victory!

“There are three bathrooms and three girls in this house,” she mutters. “Why can’t they do the math?”

The momster departs to hammer out the morning’s bathroom treaty while I begin to clear the abandoned table.

Two coffee mugs. Three cereal boxes. One facon plate.

And The Sophomore’s cereal bowl.

Holding exactly five Mini Wheats.

By Chris Barrett, Publisher


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Going for Broke

Sitting behind the Universal Studios ticket counter, Helen, a native of Flushing, Michigan, tried her best.

But negotiations with the Russian oligarch wearing a gold watch the size of Latvia just weren’t going well. Surrounded by his children, he pointed at the changing digital signs and blustered in Russian. Meanwhile three of them began poking each other and squealing. His teen daughter stood sullenly three steps away.

“I’m still not clear if you want the one-park or two-park pass for two or for three days, sweetie,” cooed Helen. “You’ll need the two-parker to ride the Hogwarts train.”

“Слишком много глупых выбор!” [My helpful translation: “This is the problem with your democracy! Too many silly choices!”]

Helen’s face leaked a smigh – the smile-sigh with throbbing forehead vein that’s the trademark of Orlando’s service industry veterans.

More squealing.


The three little Russians froze like they’d been catapulted into Siberia in shorts and flip-flops. Stepping further away, the teen attempted to pass as the child of a young Japanese couple chattering excitedly in matching Mickey Mouse sneakers and Hogwarts gowns.

As I tapped my foot, Helen foolishly complicated matters with the upsell. “Would you like to add our meal deal? For only $19.99, you can save 30 percent on your meals and get free snacks.”

More poking and squealing.

The Russian pounded his hand. “Где я могу утонуть мои дети!?” [“Where is the nearest bathroom where I can drown my children?”]

“Or for $11.75 each our commemorative lanyards can proudly display your Universal passes!”

The Russian grabbed the lanyards, threw a wad of cash at Helen, seized the nearest son by the ear and dragged him off squabbling. And after a 20-minute wait to pick up the tickets we had bought online to save time, we stepped up.

Five three-day, two-park tickets later, I announced. “Today we go for broke!”

“Between the hotel room and the three-day passes, I’d say, ‘Mission Accomplished!’” my wife said. She already looked ready to head back to the hotel pool to weep into her latest Jodi Picoult novel.

Every married couple essentially has one or two arguments they revisit to feel alive. Some argue over whoopee. Others yell about money.

We bicker about the proper way to visit theme parks.

She Who Controls the Universe is an infuriating dabbler.

In contrast, I’m all in.

She’d rather take the last shuttle to the parks with the hung-over spring breakers at 10:55 a.m. Then return on the 4:35 p.m. shuttle with the seniors and their walkers tricked out with those fancy tennis balls.

But If I’m spending $160.99 to spin a turnstile, I’m slapping on the sunblock at sunrise and not leaving until I’ve grown two blisters and heard the ka-thump of the last firework.

Dads Like Me stalk Disney and Universal en masse. After driving 28 straight hours from Maine, they poke their 3- and 5-year olds awake at 6:30 a.m. to seize that extra hour earned by shrewdly paying too much for a Disney or Universal hotel. When the gates open, they sprint to the back of the park. By the time my wife arrives after lunch (sidetracked by a three-pound Nutella-coated Belgian waffle, all that giggling and gawking at Captain America (Mom: “Did you see the biceps on him?” High School Daughter: “I was too busy looking at his cute booty!” Together: “He! He! He!), and the Bodaciously Adorable Bunny, Bird and Magic Pony Show in The Lost Jurassic Tomorrowish Toonland), Dads Like Me have ridden the best rides four times.

Except other Dads Like Me are riding those rides because I’m stuck with the Dabbler.

Last Disney trip I watched in admiration as one all-in dad held up his little princess as fireworks exploded and Tinkerbell shot across the sky moments before the park closed. He shook his daughter’s ragdoll body in an admirable effort to interrupt actual dreams so she could experience one more dream come true.

Arms folded beside him, his exhausted wife piled on. “You might want to check for a pulse.”

He gave another shake. “I don’t understand! She napped all through It’s a Small World.”

Or the dedicated dad I spotted in Mel’s Diner on our recent trip to Universal. He had lavished $16 on a 15-pound refillable Optimus Prime Transformer Souvenir Soda Cup, bigger than all of his three sons’ heads. The entire family dutifully sucked the Transformer’s head during lunch to recoup his investment. “Hurry up!” He gestured to the nearby refill station. “We can top off Optimus before leaving!”

All-in, the oldest son attacked it, eyes bulging, face turning red.

Such dedication!

But me?

After 40 minutes pancaked against exuberant visitors fingering the Puking Pastilles in Weasleys’ Wizzard Wheezes, I attempt to rally my fast-fading troops. “Time to head back to the Hulk,” I announce. “This late in the day, the line will be half the 50 minutes it was this morning!”

“How can you enjoy things when you’re rushing through them?” the Dabbler asks, wiping Nutella from her face. “Why not head back for a nice dip in the pool?”

“It’s not even six o’clock!” I cry.

In a sly attempt to round up votes, she tries bribery. “We’ll stop at an actual restaurant for nice dinner and then go for a swim.”

Bee, 9, immediately crumbles. “OK.”

But the other two are still standing firm.

“One more ride on Hulk?” The Sophomore begs her mother.

“I’m thinking more like three,” I say encouragingly.

“I’ll waive the one junk food per day rule and we can even stop and pick up ice cream!” the Dabbler counters.

“That’s exactly the problem with democracy.” I counsel the girls. “Too many silly choices!”

“What about hot fudge?” asks Elf, 12.

“No!” I protest (hot fudge being beyond the pale).

But it’s too late. The other two have actually caved for hot fudge and sprinkles.


Victorious, the Dabbler drags us back to hunt for the minivan in Jaws, Section 417.

But not before stepping briefly into Starbucks for a Classic Chai Tea Latte with Soymilk.

By Chris Barrett, Publisher


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